Thank you for even reading more than just the title and actually clicking to see what I have to say but as the title goes, it is all about sex and everything it is not. I have been wondering if the title would lure more people to read this article and I can only prove the premise when I make one, and since you have already proven me something you might as well read on… trust me, I have something to say. And you certainly will learn a thing.
I have come from a traditional Filipino family and getting hitched at a young age is a common taboo. Yes, even in college. And it didn’t help that my paternal side is Chinese and that we grew up attending Sunday service. The prospect of having a boyfriend spells marriage. Thus, I remain NBSP (no-boyfriend-since-birth). I am fairly content with my current status though because its different here in the Philippines, people usually respect you when you observe the laws set by the elders. And sex is sacred in this part of the world (or atleast to my family). There are a lot of families though who choose the revolutionary asphalt rather than the traditional bricks especially in the cities like here in Davao but there are some who still believe in the beauty of Maria Clara.
I concede that I am the least person who should be talking about sex basing from my background but since I like having big talks, I won’t let this one pass. College was far different from high-school, everything seems so new and everyone wants to have a taste of everything. Sex is naturally among them and the pressure of staying untouched during your last year is so overwhelming that students can do anything to get laid. Kissing has become less a challenge during spin-the-bottle game, comparing sexual experiences is “D Topic” of girls and boys alike, and since when is giving condoms a goodluck? The world maybe in Topsy-turvy but everybody seems to be enjoying every bit of the chaos. That ofcourse includes me, I have the pleasure of scrutinizing everybody while they kiss and pet each other right infront of me, I have come to appreciate the physiology of a human tongue more than ever and yeah I now know that withdrawal cannot kill anyone. Call me old-fashioned but I will never in my life kiss anyone I don’t love or atleast like. Duh! Why do you think people call having sex making love? Because you have to have sex with the person you love otherwise its not called love making at all. I honestly haven’t seen anyone yet doing it infront of me but the term seems to be getting more and more technical, like the process is OK as long as there is no penetration. Petting, kissing, hugging are all acceptable but the act of actually tearing a girl’s hymen is not. And that’s all that counts nowadays. Questions about morality and self-preservation shall never be acknowledged. So there.
I was able to witness a number of couples during their petting game and climax is usually guaranteed especially on the male species but frankly guys, your female counterpart don’t get as much excitement as you are obtaining. You don’t believe it guys? Yeah because females are good with acting and keeping secrets among our own kind. Trust me, girls just think that they might hurt you when you can’t see the word PLEASURE all over their faces. So next time that we initiate a conversation, put in mind that its one of our ways to distract you from your innate habit of constantly thinking about sex.. Like we know your mind would go “how are you?..1…2…3...4…5…6…sex” “yeah, im good too,1…2…3...4…5…6…sex”. Get the point? We know sex is one of man’s physical needs, thanks to Mr. Maslow who stated that we can’t reach our self-actualization without sex.. yeah, I think I’ll buy that when I’m 60, all powerful and all and still feel inadequate because of that lacking ingredient. But as of now, nah.. I’m too busy having fun to even think about that self-actualization thing.
I think I’m doing a sermon here rather than writing what’s on my mind. And I know many, if not all, find my idea too radical or even too ancient it can reach full extinction. But I don’t mind. I’m single, I very well know that I’m a prize-catch, whores think I’m worse than an ingrate bitch, most of the men I know respect and desires to be with me, and I am ending this crap. Sayonara! =)
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