You love someone not because he gives the whole world at your command
..but because with him you learn that its intricacy is what makes it magnificent.
Not even because he reaches out the stars for you
… but because they seem brighter when you stare at them together.
You don’t love him because he is the epitome of perfection
… you’re just glad that you don’t have to be perfect to deserve this piece of sunshine.
Loving is not about smiling all day and walking in the clouds
… its about the unexpected burst of an array of feelings each time you’re together
I don’t even think that its because you have a promising future together
… but because he is the only guy whom you can have a lifetime conversation with.
It doesn’t matter if ignorant people brand you “mismatched”
…as long as you share something special and true, others will seize to talk about you
Loving should never be because of religion
… it has already forbidden so many things that we cannot allow anymore dictation
Intimacy is also not about the closeness of the body
…it’s talking with your eyes and how wonderful it is when your hands are interlocked
Its more than looking at his skin, his face, his nails, or the size of his shoes
… its scrutinizing his perceptions on life and finding out how great a person he is.
Being with someone is not because he makes you feel great all the time
…he must be your mirror who points out your mistakes and helps you learn from it.
Loving my dear is not because you have it all or because you give me everything,
… its about giving myself to you and still find myself full and bursting with love that I have to give it back to you again and again.
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Friday, March 19, 2010
Sex and everything it is…not ( a repost becoz im that lazy to blog these days)
Thank you for even reading more than just the title and actually clicking to see what I have to say but as the title goes, it is all about sex and everything it is not. I have been wondering if the title would lure more people to read this article and I can only prove the premise when I make one, and since you have already proven me something you might as well read on… trust me, I have something to say. And you certainly will learn a thing.
I have come from a traditional Filipino family and getting hitched at a young age is a common taboo. Yes, even in college. And it didn’t help that my paternal side is Chinese and that we grew up attending Sunday service. The prospect of having a boyfriend spells marriage. Thus, I remain NBSP (no-boyfriend-since-birth). I am fairly content with my current status though because its different here in the Philippines, people usually respect you when you observe the laws set by the elders. And sex is sacred in this part of the world (or atleast to my family). There are a lot of families though who choose the revolutionary asphalt rather than the traditional bricks especially in the cities like here in Davao but there are some who still believe in the beauty of Maria Clara.
I concede that I am the least person who should be talking about sex basing from my background but since I like having big talks, I won’t let this one pass. College was far different from high-school, everything seems so new and everyone wants to have a taste of everything. Sex is naturally among them and the pressure of staying untouched during your last year is so overwhelming that students can do anything to get laid. Kissing has become less a challenge during spin-the-bottle game, comparing sexual experiences is “D Topic” of girls and boys alike, and since when is giving condoms a goodluck? The world maybe in Topsy-turvy but everybody seems to be enjoying every bit of the chaos. That ofcourse includes me, I have the pleasure of scrutinizing everybody while they kiss and pet each other right infront of me, I have come to appreciate the physiology of a human tongue more than ever and yeah I now know that withdrawal cannot kill anyone. Call me old-fashioned but I will never in my life kiss anyone I don’t love or atleast like. Duh! Why do you think people call having sex making love? Because you have to have sex with the person you love otherwise its not called love making at all. I honestly haven’t seen anyone yet doing it infront of me but the term seems to be getting more and more technical, like the process is OK as long as there is no penetration. Petting, kissing, hugging are all acceptable but the act of actually tearing a girl’s hymen is not. And that’s all that counts nowadays. Questions about morality and self-preservation shall never be acknowledged. So there.
I was able to witness a number of couples during their petting game and climax is usually guaranteed especially on the male species but frankly guys, your female counterpart don’t get as much excitement as you are obtaining. You don’t believe it guys? Yeah because females are good with acting and keeping secrets among our own kind. Trust me, girls just think that they might hurt you when you can’t see the word PLEASURE all over their faces. So next time that we initiate a conversation, put in mind that its one of our ways to distract you from your innate habit of constantly thinking about sex.. Like we know your mind would go “how are you?..1…2…3...4…5…6…sex” “yeah, im good too,1…2…3...4…5…6…sex”. Get the point? We know sex is one of man’s physical needs, thanks to Mr. Maslow who stated that we can’t reach our self-actualization without sex.. yeah, I think I’ll buy that when I’m 60, all powerful and all and still feel inadequate because of that lacking ingredient. But as of now, nah.. I’m too busy having fun to even think about that self-actualization thing.
I think I’m doing a sermon here rather than writing what’s on my mind. And I know many, if not all, find my idea too radical or even too ancient it can reach full extinction. But I don’t mind. I’m single, I very well know that I’m a prize-catch, whores think I’m worse than an ingrate bitch, most of the men I know respect and desires to be with me, and I am ending this crap. Sayonara! =)
I have come from a traditional Filipino family and getting hitched at a young age is a common taboo. Yes, even in college. And it didn’t help that my paternal side is Chinese and that we grew up attending Sunday service. The prospect of having a boyfriend spells marriage. Thus, I remain NBSP (no-boyfriend-since-birth). I am fairly content with my current status though because its different here in the Philippines, people usually respect you when you observe the laws set by the elders. And sex is sacred in this part of the world (or atleast to my family). There are a lot of families though who choose the revolutionary asphalt rather than the traditional bricks especially in the cities like here in Davao but there are some who still believe in the beauty of Maria Clara.
I concede that I am the least person who should be talking about sex basing from my background but since I like having big talks, I won’t let this one pass. College was far different from high-school, everything seems so new and everyone wants to have a taste of everything. Sex is naturally among them and the pressure of staying untouched during your last year is so overwhelming that students can do anything to get laid. Kissing has become less a challenge during spin-the-bottle game, comparing sexual experiences is “D Topic” of girls and boys alike, and since when is giving condoms a goodluck? The world maybe in Topsy-turvy but everybody seems to be enjoying every bit of the chaos. That ofcourse includes me, I have the pleasure of scrutinizing everybody while they kiss and pet each other right infront of me, I have come to appreciate the physiology of a human tongue more than ever and yeah I now know that withdrawal cannot kill anyone. Call me old-fashioned but I will never in my life kiss anyone I don’t love or atleast like. Duh! Why do you think people call having sex making love? Because you have to have sex with the person you love otherwise its not called love making at all. I honestly haven’t seen anyone yet doing it infront of me but the term seems to be getting more and more technical, like the process is OK as long as there is no penetration. Petting, kissing, hugging are all acceptable but the act of actually tearing a girl’s hymen is not. And that’s all that counts nowadays. Questions about morality and self-preservation shall never be acknowledged. So there.
I was able to witness a number of couples during their petting game and climax is usually guaranteed especially on the male species but frankly guys, your female counterpart don’t get as much excitement as you are obtaining. You don’t believe it guys? Yeah because females are good with acting and keeping secrets among our own kind. Trust me, girls just think that they might hurt you when you can’t see the word PLEASURE all over their faces. So next time that we initiate a conversation, put in mind that its one of our ways to distract you from your innate habit of constantly thinking about sex.. Like we know your mind would go “how are you?..1…2…3...4…5…6…sex” “yeah, im good too,1…2…3...4…5…6…sex”. Get the point? We know sex is one of man’s physical needs, thanks to Mr. Maslow who stated that we can’t reach our self-actualization without sex.. yeah, I think I’ll buy that when I’m 60, all powerful and all and still feel inadequate because of that lacking ingredient. But as of now, nah.. I’m too busy having fun to even think about that self-actualization thing.
I think I’m doing a sermon here rather than writing what’s on my mind. And I know many, if not all, find my idea too radical or even too ancient it can reach full extinction. But I don’t mind. I’m single, I very well know that I’m a prize-catch, whores think I’m worse than an ingrate bitch, most of the men I know respect and desires to be with me, and I am ending this crap. Sayonara! =)
Sunday, February 14, 2010
valentines day♥
I love everything in this room..♥
... Don't worry, I'm not with my boyfriend!haha.. :)
We volunteered to arrange my cousin's fiance's room for this special day.. Aren't we just adorable? And I must say, I would never prefer any other date other than them for V. day (except ofcourse when my boyfriend is around.. :))
... after the day's work, we treat ourselves with the coldest choco and milk at cafe V. ( we just felt its the most appropriate place for V day)
I hope you had a blast yesterday too!
... Don't worry, I'm not with my boyfriend!haha.. :)
We volunteered to arrange my cousin's fiance's room for this special day.. Aren't we just adorable? And I must say, I would never prefer any other date other than them for V. day (except ofcourse when my boyfriend is around.. :))
... after the day's work, we treat ourselves with the coldest choco and milk at cafe V. ( we just felt its the most appropriate place for V day)
I hope you had a blast yesterday too!Sunday, February 7, 2010
my week long celebration
Sunday evening I received the greatest gift for the start of 2010. I passed the PNLE!!! and to brag some more.... all of my classmates and closest friends made it to the top 39% too! That way, no body has to worry about awkward greetings and give ambivalent smiles. And since this is the day all of us has been salivating since day one in college, I'm pretty sure everybody had their own twist to commemorate this rare event.
*MONDAY:
Shobe introduced me to the yummiest (and biggest!) burger I've ever tasted.
Tadah! BROTHER'S BURGER!!!! *SAY IT WITH LOUD BARITONE VOICE*
In the evening, We visit Marian's father's wake at St. Peters chapel along with our classmates. It was bittersweet for her because she lost her father the night she learned about the result. We stayed there for a while because everybody has so much to tell to each other.
*TUESDAY:
I asked mama and mommy if Jayson can stay for the week. They obliged only if we sleep in different rooms. He chose the sala over our deserted( and probably haunted) guest-converted room. hehehe... He came just in time for merienda and since we will be having dinner at home ( death anniversary of Uncle Peter) we opted to eat light meal at greewich pizza hauz.
photo from here
... just before going home we bumped on Hernani (his bestfriend in high school) and chatted for a while. He passed the Board too! We passed our time at People's park and talk about how great that everybody we know made it! And to help digest the food we walked to our house just in time for dinner at Mommy's house.
*WEDNESDAY:
photo from here
We woke up early so we can exercise at people's park. We walked on the way there freezing because we don't have jackets on and jogged a couple of rounds before going home. Jayson and the Section A boys have a basketball match so I stayed at home the whole morning watching TV and surfing the net. After, we met up with his college friends, helped Ace do his grocery and ate at an eat all you can eating house. I forgot the name and I wouldn't be going back there anyway, so i guess its OK.
We bought some 8-in-1 dvd along Bonifacio street, some 3-in-1 coffee and junkfoods for our spontaneously planned movie marathon but he was so tired to finish even one movie so we called it a night and slept early for tomorrow.
*THURSDAY:
The boys were planning just yesterday that we go around Davao to catch up and wind up since Marion can use his car but the plan didn't pursue so we get to spend a couple of time together. We went to the mall and tried every game in the arcade. And since we don't have budget for lunch, we opted to eat at their food court. but the lechon kawali with hot sauce with macaroni salad as desert turned out to be quite a meal and we promised on going back at Jumbo some time. They certainly lived up to their name with all their jumbo rice and jumbo viand.
We went home after with a full stomach...
Merienda consists of Mcdo's large fries and their new flavored-sundaes.. i fell inlove immediately with the strawberry/choco filled desert!
Dinner we spent with his sister Elle and her bestfriend Obell. And since everybody is craving for pizza. BIG time! He ordered their overloaded on thin crust pizza paired with fries on peppered mayo toppings.
In late evening, I met up with my college friends. Alpha phi Gwapha mhi. Meloi is right, zabadani housed the cheapest tea and the most accommodating host there is. We spent the evening there with laughter and good news. It's always great catching up with the girls. We ended the evening at midnight. tired and full and with a new respect for tea, Islam, and body posture.
photo from here
*FRIDAY:
We woke up early for the thanksgiving mass at San pedro church by Merge family. then ruled the streets with our motorcade after.
Jayson's last vacation day at home. We decided to use the time to get our precious diploma in school. while there, we saw our supervisor Sir Paolo, the other RLE supervisors, and our assistant dean Maam Isidor. They congratulated us for the 100% passing rate of our section. It feels good to be part of section A... :)
We visited Wotis since the attendants there are friends with Jayson and they always call him pastor. *giggles
After, We opted to go to Mang manok instead of Picobello. We wanted to eat rice since its 3 in the afternoon and we didnt eat lunch yet. It was worth it! we ordered 3-pieces fried chicken with unlimited rice and sizzling sisig paired with 1.5 liter coke. whew! my stomach was about to burst.
photo from here
earlier that evening I went to Evangel Family Church to visit some old friends and watch a film show called "the blind side". it was quite a movie and I learned a thing about trust and family. After church is the Red shindig sponsored by MERGE. We had a blast at Victoriano's enjoying anything from food to free snacks and beverages.
... we went to Chyrel's place at Toril and spent a coupe of hours there. we decided we need to go home at 3 am and I dozed off to sleep until afternoon the next day.
*SATURDAY:
Our triple Celebration. Karla's 17th birthday, Van2x's 11th birthday, and my thanksgiving party.
I love the fact that everybody contributed to the success of the event. My mama and papa donated lechon and softdrinks, auntie Lea and uncle Nikki prepared all the food and pastries, Auntie Ner made deserts, Ate joy busied herself with the decors ( candles and tarpaulins), Auntie Beth and Uncle Bobong prepared their house and I give them the credit for the wonderful lights outside and for accommodating us all for the night.
I Love you guys!!!!♥♥♥
*MONDAY:
Shobe introduced me to the yummiest (and biggest!) burger I've ever tasted.
Tadah! BROTHER'S BURGER!!!! *SAY IT WITH LOUD BARITONE VOICE*
photo from hereI ordered Mcflurry to pair with our big brothers burger just around the corner because burgers are yummier with sundaes... believe me on this. Check out their store at Damosa Gateway at the back of Concentrix. If you are a food junkie Damosa is definitely the place you wanna go to. they house different foodstuffs that can tickle your palate ranging from Mcdo, Yellowcab, Swiss deli, Tsuru, and so much more you can only wish you live nearby.
In the evening, We visit Marian's father's wake at St. Peters chapel along with our classmates. It was bittersweet for her because she lost her father the night she learned about the result. We stayed there for a while because everybody has so much to tell to each other.
*TUESDAY:
I asked mama and mommy if Jayson can stay for the week. They obliged only if we sleep in different rooms. He chose the sala over our deserted( and probably haunted) guest-converted room. hehehe... He came just in time for merienda and since we will be having dinner at home ( death anniversary of Uncle Peter) we opted to eat light meal at greewich pizza hauz.
photo from here
... just before going home we bumped on Hernani (his bestfriend in high school) and chatted for a while. He passed the Board too! We passed our time at People's park and talk about how great that everybody we know made it! And to help digest the food we walked to our house just in time for dinner at Mommy's house.
*WEDNESDAY:
photo from here
We woke up early so we can exercise at people's park. We walked on the way there freezing because we don't have jackets on and jogged a couple of rounds before going home. Jayson and the Section A boys have a basketball match so I stayed at home the whole morning watching TV and surfing the net. After, we met up with his college friends, helped Ace do his grocery and ate at an eat all you can eating house. I forgot the name and I wouldn't be going back there anyway, so i guess its OK.
We bought some 8-in-1 dvd along Bonifacio street, some 3-in-1 coffee and junkfoods for our spontaneously planned movie marathon but he was so tired to finish even one movie so we called it a night and slept early for tomorrow.
*THURSDAY:
The boys were planning just yesterday that we go around Davao to catch up and wind up since Marion can use his car but the plan didn't pursue so we get to spend a couple of time together. We went to the mall and tried every game in the arcade. And since we don't have budget for lunch, we opted to eat at their food court. but the lechon kawali with hot sauce with macaroni salad as desert turned out to be quite a meal and we promised on going back at Jumbo some time. They certainly lived up to their name with all their jumbo rice and jumbo viand.
We went home after with a full stomach...
Merienda consists of Mcdo's large fries and their new flavored-sundaes.. i fell inlove immediately with the strawberry/choco filled desert!
Dinner we spent with his sister Elle and her bestfriend Obell. And since everybody is craving for pizza. BIG time! He ordered their overloaded on thin crust pizza paired with fries on peppered mayo toppings.
In late evening, I met up with my college friends. Alpha phi Gwapha mhi. Meloi is right, zabadani housed the cheapest tea and the most accommodating host there is. We spent the evening there with laughter and good news. It's always great catching up with the girls. We ended the evening at midnight. tired and full and with a new respect for tea, Islam, and body posture.
photo from here
*FRIDAY:
We woke up early for the thanksgiving mass at San pedro church by Merge family. then ruled the streets with our motorcade after.
Jayson's last vacation day at home. We decided to use the time to get our precious diploma in school. while there, we saw our supervisor Sir Paolo, the other RLE supervisors, and our assistant dean Maam Isidor. They congratulated us for the 100% passing rate of our section. It feels good to be part of section A... :)
We visited Wotis since the attendants there are friends with Jayson and they always call him pastor. *giggles
After, We opted to go to Mang manok instead of Picobello. We wanted to eat rice since its 3 in the afternoon and we didnt eat lunch yet. It was worth it! we ordered 3-pieces fried chicken with unlimited rice and sizzling sisig paired with 1.5 liter coke. whew! my stomach was about to burst.
photo from here
earlier that evening I went to Evangel Family Church to visit some old friends and watch a film show called "the blind side". it was quite a movie and I learned a thing about trust and family. After church is the Red shindig sponsored by MERGE. We had a blast at Victoriano's enjoying anything from food to free snacks and beverages.
... we went to Chyrel's place at Toril and spent a coupe of hours there. we decided we need to go home at 3 am and I dozed off to sleep until afternoon the next day.
*SATURDAY:
Our triple Celebration. Karla's 17th birthday, Van2x's 11th birthday, and my thanksgiving party.
I love the fact that everybody contributed to the success of the event. My mama and papa donated lechon and softdrinks, auntie Lea and uncle Nikki prepared all the food and pastries, Auntie Ner made deserts, Ate joy busied herself with the decors ( candles and tarpaulins), Auntie Beth and Uncle Bobong prepared their house and I give them the credit for the wonderful lights outside and for accommodating us all for the night.
I Love you guys!!!!♥♥♥
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